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Mike Doherty's avatar

A number of the problems stem from young men. Single parents, particularly single moms, can't provide the structure for teens and young adults to control their impulses. A Lord of the Flies society doesn't work well. Dads can provide both modeling and physical controls. While it not good to hit kids, the threat of violence sometimes gets the point across. One time when my son was about 15, he was "mouthing" off at his mother. I walked up to him, grabbed him by the front of his shirt. I picked him up and put him against the wall and said in a low, threatening voice: "Don't you ever yell at your mother like that again." He never did.

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Anuradha Pandey's avatar

Thanks for the link! Luxury beliefs and your writing in general have shaped me more than most.

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