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Meghan Bell's avatar

I was encouraged to go into STEM by men and women alike because I was good at math. Hearing stories of women in those careers and looking at what their lives were like did not make it appeal to me at all -- not because of sexism or anything like that, but because I didn't want to work insane hours and be alone with a computer crunching numbers etc. (In retrospect, had a limited vision of what a STEM career could entail). When I found out I was pregnant one of the first things I said to my husband was that I wanted to be a STAH mother.

I've heard some *very* negative things about workplaces and education departments that are female dominated, from both men and women. Wasn't there a now-retracted study that found that women do better when they have male bosses / mentors? I worked in a female-dominated industry prior to motherhood and honestly, I think I disproportionately was given opportunities by men and often found it easier to work with them because I prefer blunt, straight-forward communication and can't stand long meetings and bureaucracy.

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Holly MathNerd's avatar

I've read many people say this about the Boy Scouts vs Girl Scouts, but the only difference is that the girl scouts didn't make a huge announcement, change their organizational name, and do it as publicly as the Boy Scouts did. Boys (who are the victims of the kind of shitty parents that produce boys who think they're girls) have been welcome in girl scouts since 2015. I wonder what that means, when the girl organization just quietly complies while the boy organization makes the big public show. I dunno.

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