- NYC can be generally inhospitable and apartments can be very crappy, so I would pay more to get a place you really like
- Think heavily about neighborhood: where you'll want to sleep vs. where you'll want to be for social events or work
- Avoid street facing units (car/ambulance traffic can be loud at all times of day and night)
- Avoid units anywhere near major hospitals or projects - check city maps
- Living in NYC is not really an exercise in cost minimization and it would be foolish to make it one in my opinion: pay up while you're here on anything you find interesting
- The diversity of the city is awesome: I've met film makers, ballet dancers, software engineers, school teachers, sound designers all at the same dinner! And all were very interesting
- NYC doesn't give a damn about you - someone I know put it as "you are never bigger than the city. everyone always has better things to do" - which fosters a very unique and interesting culture
Get a Costco membership, which you can use to buy a discounted Instacart membership. Get all your groceries, cleaning products, toilet paper, etc from Costco via instacart delivery. You will save a shit ton of money — delivery sounds like an indulgence but it's obviously necessary without a car (assuming you won't have one here) and it is still far cheaper than lugging everything from your local grocery.
PS - My husband and I live on the Upper East Side, and we love having friends over for cocktails! Feel free to reach out. I only know how to make Martinis and Manhattans, but I have perfected them. (Or if you'll be alone for Thanksgiving, I'm hosting a dinner and you're welcome to join us.)
Hey Rob, we met at an NYC event for someone else’s book. If you need a place to stay while you look for an apartment, you can stay with me. I have a spare bedroom and bathroom in Lower Manhattan. DM me.
“For all its flaws, though, America is still the best country in the world. And I say that as someone who has spent most of my adult life living abroad. Ever since I left home in California at the age of 17, I’ve spent nearly a decade overseas.”
Your assessment is a hopeful one for the United States. I’m glad to hear it
Can't help you will NYC, but if you're ever in the Twin Cities, I have lovely high-end cabin in western Wisconsin on the back 40 for guests. From seclusion to downtown in 30 minutes.
I loved in Queens during my time in NYC, mid 80's. Nobody ever mentions it, but it's a vibrant part of the city in its own way,more working and middle class, but very surprising in the variety it offers.
Some things I keep in mind:
- NYC can be generally inhospitable and apartments can be very crappy, so I would pay more to get a place you really like
- Think heavily about neighborhood: where you'll want to sleep vs. where you'll want to be for social events or work
- Avoid street facing units (car/ambulance traffic can be loud at all times of day and night)
- Avoid units anywhere near major hospitals or projects - check city maps
- Living in NYC is not really an exercise in cost minimization and it would be foolish to make it one in my opinion: pay up while you're here on anything you find interesting
- The diversity of the city is awesome: I've met film makers, ballet dancers, software engineers, school teachers, sound designers all at the same dinner! And all were very interesting
- NYC doesn't give a damn about you - someone I know put it as "you are never bigger than the city. everyone always has better things to do" - which fosters a very unique and interesting culture
NY is a great place to start your presidential bid.
Get a Costco membership, which you can use to buy a discounted Instacart membership. Get all your groceries, cleaning products, toilet paper, etc from Costco via instacart delivery. You will save a shit ton of money — delivery sounds like an indulgence but it's obviously necessary without a car (assuming you won't have one here) and it is still far cheaper than lugging everything from your local grocery.
PS - My husband and I live on the Upper East Side, and we love having friends over for cocktails! Feel free to reach out. I only know how to make Martinis and Manhattans, but I have perfected them. (Or if you'll be alone for Thanksgiving, I'm hosting a dinner and you're welcome to join us.)
Welcome home Rob! SPeaking of apples, you are always welcome to come to Ithaca to pick apples, drink cider, and eat apple cider donuts!
thanks,
randy
Hey Rob, we met at an NYC event for someone else’s book. If you need a place to stay while you look for an apartment, you can stay with me. I have a spare bedroom and bathroom in Lower Manhattan. DM me.
Sorry, that San Francisco tweet has me cracking up. Nevertheless congrats on the move Rob.
“For all its flaws, though, America is still the best country in the world. And I say that as someone who has spent most of my adult life living abroad. Ever since I left home in California at the age of 17, I’ve spent nearly a decade overseas.”
Your assessment is a hopeful one for the United States. I’m glad to hear it
Welcome Home, Rob!
Can't help you will NYC, but if you're ever in the Twin Cities, I have lovely high-end cabin in western Wisconsin on the back 40 for guests. From seclusion to downtown in 30 minutes.
I'd be delighted to have you stay.
To me, the best place to live now is the West Village. Beautiful, great restaurants, neighborhood feel. Expensive, yes.
Consider Austin for your next move.
Dammit, Rob. You're writing is so captivating that I missed my stop!
Congratulations on the move Dr. Henderson. NYC is a great place. I look forward to attending any meetups you organize.
Congrats! Glad it will be easier for folks in the US to hear you speak.
I loved in Queens during my time in NYC, mid 80's. Nobody ever mentions it, but it's a vibrant part of the city in its own way,more working and middle class, but very surprising in the variety it offers.
Much easier to have lunch with Jonathan Haidt. Good luck…with the move…
Bravo!!!! I love it! See you here!!