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Arnold Kling's avatar

I have a simpler explanation. We need to differentiate between measures of our character and measures of outcomes. Holding self-serving views means that we think highly of our character and are jealous of others' outcomes. So we have high estimates of our intelligence, morality, and so on. It also means that we have high estimates of the outcomes that others enjoy—their wealth, their sex lives, and so on. It is two sides of the same ego.

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Laura Creighton's avatar

A different problem is that the people who are at the parties think they are lonely, too. "I've got lots of acquaintances, but very few real friends." they lament.

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