Thinking Class, Free Will, Smokers
Links and recommendations
You can now catch my discussion with Theodore Dalrymple and John Gillam on the Thinking Class podcast.
Links for Spotify and Apple Podcast.
NYC Event:
You are invited to attend my live event with Freya India, one of my favorite writers. May 13 at 6:30pm.
Details and registration here.
Wall Street Journal:
I have a new piece out in the WSJ about free will.
A fashionable view of human behavior holds that because everything has a cause, no one is truly responsible for their actions.
In his 2023 bestseller “Determined,” Stanford neuroscientist Robert Sapolsky argues that free will is an illusion. “We are nothing more or less than the cumulative biological and environmental luck, over which we had no control, that has brought us to any moment,” he writes. Author and podcaster Sam Harris has spent 15 years making the same case to a popular audience. “Our wills are simply not of our own making,” he writes in “Free Will” (2012). “Thoughts and intentions emerge from background causes of which we are unaware and over which we exert no conscious control. We do not have the freedom we think we have.”
Common sense pushes back. Consider an example from the psychologist Paul Bloom. Imagine a man who thrashes violently in his sleep and accidentally strikes his wife, breaking her nose. They both wake up, and he is horrified and ashamed. Now imagine a second man who resents his wife and wants to hurt her. He waits until she is asleep then hits her in the face. When she wakes up, he pretends it was an accident. The difference between these two men is obvious. Any legal or moral system that doesn’t recognize that would collapse.
Yet much of elite discourse encourages us to blur that distinction.
Read the whole thing here.
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If you follow me on Instagram or Twitter/X, you’ll know I regularly share screenshots like this from books or articles I’ve read:
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Links and recommendations
What Historians Make of America’s 250th Anniversary by Edward Short
The Girlboss Lie That’s Breaking Working-class Women’s Hearts by Lisa Britton
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Three interesting findings:
1. Researchers asked 64,000 women in 180 countries what traits they look for in a partner and above wealth, status or height, they chose kindness as the most key, followed by supportiveness. (source).
2. Forty years ago, Venezuela and Norway had the same level of both national income and oil reserves. Norway now has the largest sovereign wealth fund in the world, while millions of Venezuelans are facing malnutrition and, in some cases, starvation. (source).
3. Smokers tend to incur higher annual healthcare costs, but because they die sooner, their lifetime healthcare spending is less than that of non-smokers. Non-smokers live longer and develop more age-related illnesses that cost money. (source).
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🔷 This feels like one of the central tensions in modern psychology and neuroscience.
Clearly we are shaped by biology, conditioning, and forces outside awareness, but collapsing that entirely into determinism seems to miss something important: humans also appear capable of developing greater self-awareness, self-regulation, and coherence over time.
Agency isn’t absolute freedom from causation; it’s a developmental capacity that can strengthen or weaken.
"Researchers asked 64,000 women in 180 countries what traits they look for in a partner and above wealth, status or height, they chose kindness as the most key, followed by supportiveness. (source)." You put this at #1 in your Three Interesting Findings list. I suppose it's interesting to men because society in general and the manosphere in particular say all women are shallow or gold diggers or only want to be with "Chads", but to women, this so-called Interesting Finding isn't some bolt-from-the-blue revelation. Women (unless they're emotionally damaged) want men who treat them with kindness, as equal human beings. This shouldn't be some kind of shocking discovery.