Socialism, Violent Men, Infectious Siblings, Babbling Babies
Links and recommendations
You can now watch my discussion about socialism with Leyla Taghiyeva, a Stossel TV Fellow:
From the archives:
Why (Some) Women are Attracted to Violent Men. An evolutionary explanation:
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Links and recommendations:
A Contrarian Argument for Office Romances by Roy Baumeister
Why do sociologists think that they are critical theorists? by Joseph Heath
How Does Our Taste in Movies Change With Age? by Daniel Parris
How Two California Cities Are Reducing Street Homelessness by Tom Wolf
Are DSA Mayors the Future of the Democratic Party? by Charles Fain Lehman
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Three interesting findings:
1. Researchers have long wondered why older siblings tend to be, on average, more successful than younger siblings. Scott Alexander explored this question a few years ago and didn’t reach any strong conclusions. A new study finds that a major factor seems to be that older siblings bring home germs which can affect younger siblings’ brain development. Exposure to respiratory viruses before a baby’s first birthday consistently predicted reduced earnings. Half or more of the gap in life outcomes between older and younger siblings can be attributed to pathogens inadvertently brought home by older siblings. (source). One of those findings that sits in the sweet spot between counter-intuitive and obvious; it is both surprising and immediately makes sense when you hear it. Maybe the lesson here is to make sure older sibs wash up as soon as they get home.
2. Women may have evolved to be more concerned about their looks. A survey of more than 90,000 people from 93 nations found that, in every single one, women devote more time than men to enhancing their appearance. (source: A Billion Years of Sex Differences by Steve Stewart-Williams).
3. This isn’t a finding from a study or a survey, just a personal observation: My sister’s 6-month-old infant is going through a phase now where whenever my sister is in conversation with someone, the baby immediately begins babbling or making loud noises. As soon as my sister stops talking, the baby goes quiet. The babbling only comes when she hears her mom engaged in conversation with another person. The evolutionary psychologist in me thinks this is to ensure the mom doesn’t get too distracted; it is as if the infant is saying “While you’re talking to someone else, don’t forget I’m here and your main job is to keep me alive; don’t let your attention wander too far from me!” Related essay here.
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I think we need to strongly consider the class implications of political belief (like socialism), and the psychology/emotional needs those beliefs meet. Rob, you’ve already done this with your “luxury beliefs” framing. Political ideologies (especially among the upper class) rarely seem like sincere expressions of policy desires these days.
https://jmpolemic.substack.com/p/our-ruling-class
When I read the interesting fact about respiratory disease transmission to younger children I immediately thought about FREDO in The Godfather 2. Remember that scene when he is an ill child and they try to heal him with a butterfly 🦋.
Did Mario Puzzo somehow intuit this?!