Sitemap - 2025 - Rob Henderson's Newsletter
Would Hitler Be An Influencer?
Feminization, Peterson Academy, Lenin
Communal Narcissism, Extreme Opinions, C-SPAN
You Don't Want To Learn Everything The Hard Way
Radicalization, Defense Mechanisms, Fashion
Violence, Censorship, Celebrity Worship
Cancel Culture Is Not What You Think
What Charlie Kirk’s Murder Reveals About Historical Amnesia
Thoughts on Charlie Kirk + Manhood in the Making
Downward Mobility, Siren Song, Psychological Distress
The Unspeakable, Cancel Culture, Success Sequence
A Prize To Be Won By Fierce Struggle
Low Status. Medium Status. High Status.
Charisma on Command, Manhood, Narcissism
The Contradictions of Sex Work
Hidden Calculations, Flow States, Just Asking Questions
Elite Overproduction, Schlub Feminism, Ben Shapiro
What You See Depends on What You Want
Hard Lessons, Charisma, Dad Saves America
Sex Differences Don't Go Away Just Because You Want Them To
The Weird Reactions To The Sydney Sweeney Ad Are a Smokescreen For Widespread Romantic Desperation
Marriage Markets, Rage Bait, Life-lies
The Coldplay Kiss Cam and the Crushing Weight of Reputational Loss Aversion
Sexual Politics, Slot Machines, Poor Man’s Son
No One Tells You What It Costs to Climb Upward
Assortative Mating and Political Malevolence
New York Times, Daunting Obstacle, Painful Experiences
Trade-Offs, Unspeakeasy, McDonald's
How To Stay Poor and Join the Underclass
Social Control, Cigarette Packs, Momentary Pleasure
The Double Life of America’s Elite
Zohran Mamdani's Luxury Beliefs
22 Life Changing Insights, Social Mobility, The Times
Better an Absence of Men Than Imperfect Men
Sex Ratios, Rioting, Marijuana
Luxury Lounges and Status Games
Grandiose Narcissism, Stamina, Claremont McKenna College
Tony Soprano and the Jungian Death Mother
Don’t Take Advice from Miserable People
Emotions, American Dream, Self-Esteem
Why Extravagant Weddings Are On The Rise At The Same Time Marital Rates Are In Decline
Equity Meme, Dominance Disputes, Voter Preferences
What “Adolescence” Gets Wrong About Incels, Crime, and Class
Temporarily Embarrassed Aristocrats
What I Told RFK's Team at the Department of Health and Human Services
Reasonably Happy, Intelligent Partner, NYC event
American Renewal, Irrepressible Monkey, Psychological Distress
Is a Man's Body More Like a Peacock's Tail or More Like Deer Antlers?
Status Cues, Escalating Signals, Luck
Experts and Elites Play Fundamentally Different Games
Unstated Rules Preserve Hierarchy
Modern Wisdom, Sex and Violence, Parental Narcissism
What Women See When They Look at a Man’s Body
What I’ve Learned After Three Years on Substack
Red Queen, Red Pills, Red Flags
Is It Ever Okay to Ask a Woman for Her Phone Number?
A Few Thoughts on Social Class and Upward Mobility
The Psychology Of What Women Want
Most Sex Happens in Relationships
The Carousel, Sex Partners, Gender Norms
Human Error, Infamous Heroin, High IQ
Piña Killadas: Thoughts on The White Lotus Finale
Troubled: A Conversation with Rob Henderson & Dr. Drew Pinsky
What Kind of Essay Gets You Into the Ivy League?
Dark Triad, Romantic Partner Selection, Dating Advice
Introverts, Dopamine, Great Scientists
Chekhov's Blender: Sex, Lies, and Protein Shakes
How Sneaky Men Exploit the Dating Economy (And Why Women Let Them)
Why Imposter Syndrome Is Most Common in Intellectual and Creative Fields
Princeton, Individualism, Social Hierarchies
Sometimes Money Can Destroy You Faster Than Poverty
The Hot Girl Economy, Drunk Driving, Ivy Leaguers
To Raise Birthrates, Pay People To Get Married
Charisma and Benevolent Sexism
Office Hours, Birthrates, Authoritarianism
“We confess our small faults only to convince people that we have no greater ones.”
What the Trump-Vance-Zelenskyy Altercation Reveals About Dominance Disputes
Main Character Syndrome Keeps Getting Worse
Social Media Is Turning You Into an Informant
Hiring Radicals, Affirmative Action, Suicide Rates
Why I’m Making These Livestreams a Regular Thing
Chaotic Permanence, Sex Differences, Elon Musk
Chaos vs. Poverty, Intelligence and Personality, Live Event with Dr. Drew
Killing A Bad Strategy Before It Kills you
People Play Games Without Knowing It
Vulnerable Narcissism, Conformity, High Heels
Sometimes Readers Prefer Paperbacks
It's Time To Stop Blaming Misinformation for Cynicism and Mistrust
Mulholland Drive: Down the David Lynch Rabbit Hole
Violent Crime, Last Boys, Misinformation
Sexual Morality and Societal Progress
What I Learned After I Met Pete Hegseth
Schedule a meeting with Rob Henderson
I Was Mistaken When I Said That Giving Unsolicited Advice Is a Mistake
Tradwife Dilemma, Genetic History, The Great Gatsby
Rich People Food, Daydreaming, Broken Windows
The Outrage About Chipotle and Panda Express
The Smoke Detector Principle: The Evolutionary Advantage of Overreaction
The True Self is the Person You Want Others to Believe You Are
The Point is to Steadily Advance Toward Power While Appearing Not to Move at All
The Hub Dialogues, Happiness, Bonobos
The Ideology of the Dangerous Female